When I think of the word nature, I think of the very core, heavenly attributes that we are sent to earth with as sons and daughters of God. I believe that when referring to our natures, we could really be referring to the gifts of the Spirit bestowed upon us “before the world was” (Abraham 3:22). Gifts of the spirit are given to us in this life to bless, uplift, encourage, and strengthen others. “And all these gifts come from God, for the benefit of the children of God” (D&C 46:16). We are taught that there are some gifts we can pray to have bestowed upon us, some gifts we can work hard to achieve, but other gifts we are just born with. Could it be possible that our gay brothers and sisters aren’t just born with distinct attractions, but are also born with a common, special gift of the Spirit that is intended to bless, strengthen, and influence others? Is it possible that the often soft, nurturing, and gentle nature of those who are gay could be intended to help those of us who are rough, withdrawn, and hardened? What if the special gifts of our gay loved ones could lead us closer to “the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ?” (Ephesians 4:13)
I have heard some of my gay friends refer to their “nature” as a curse, a stumbling block, or a struggle. While I do not presume to understand the pain and struggle that can happen to some of those attracted to the same gender, I do understand the beauty that has come into my life from associating with them. I wish to tell them to value this gift, to impart of their goodness and uniqueness to others, and to not “hide their [gift] under a bushel.” I believe the Lord would have them use these gifts in humility, sincere desire, and “real intent” to bless others, as they may feel prompted to do.
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